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Saturday, July 21, 2012

#Six Sentence Sunday #20- A Heart Not Easily Broken

Welcome back!

Last week, Brian asked Ebony to spend time with him in the VIP area of the club. He wants to get to know her, but it's too soon to ask her to leave the building with him. The next best thing is to have her move away from the speakers and attempt to have a decent conversation. But really, how easy is it to do with music pounding in your ears and yelling at one another?

Ebony takes a look at the area designated for band members only and guarded by a menacing man in black. Brian is needed on stage for the band's second performance of the night. He doesn't wait for her reply. Instead, he toasts her with his beer bottle, gulps down the liquid, and disappears into the crowd. Ebony's eyes are on him when her friends, Yasmine and Kaitlyn, (forgot about them, huh?), reappear. Both woman question her about the blond headed hottie. Ebony smirks, under the assumption she's been set up by her friends. They tell her no, they have no clue who he is. She tells them about the VIP invite. Let's pick up from there:

Two sets of eyebrows rose.

“So, are you going?” Yasmine studied me, no doubt wondering if tonight’s mission had been a success.

I stared at the stage as the music began to play, watching Brian in action. He looked in my direction and smiled.

“I haven’t decided yet.”

We've reached the end of chapter 1....Did I just hear some gasps and 'ah man!'s???? LOL, I hope so! And as promised, I have a few surprises!

First, if you haven't heard, The Butterfly Memoirs, has found a home with 5 Prince Publishing! The first book, A Heart Not Easily Broken, will be available this fall! Stay tuned for the details of the exact release date! I am so excited to be able to share this story with you all!

Second, if you have not had the opportunity to follow all twenty of the Six Sentence Sunday post, never fear! Follow this link to read the full first chapter! Please leave your thoughts, as I love to interact with readers!

And third, because of the positive response I've gotten, I am going to share chapter 2 starting next Sunday! Come back to find out what Ebony's decision is! I look forward to hearing from you!

Here's a brief blurb:

Twenty-six-year old Ebony Campbell is a black woman working hard to achieve her dream of becoming a veterinarian at the Los Angeles Zoo. For the past seven years, her focus has been maintaining her grades, nothing, not a man, not even her friends, come between her, and her education. Until one night, her roommates convince her to put the books down and go out to have a little fun.

Brian Young is a musician, cool, confident and well on the path to making his musical dreams come true. He owns a business cutting yards during the day and makes music at night. The moment he sees Ebony dancing in the crowd as he plays on the stage, he's hooked. Determined to get to know her, he ignores her discomfort of their racial differences. His attraction isn’t based on the color of her skin; it's in her eyes and her mind...and of course her curvaceous body.

As soon as things heat up between them, Brian scores the chance of a lifetime, an offer he can't refuse, that will take him away from Ebony for three months. Ebony's willing to handle the separation since her final year of college is about to begin. The less distractions she has, the better start she'll have of her senior year.

Everything runs smoothly until one night when Ebony finds herself trapped in a situation that changes her life. The secret she must keep from Brian, and her best friend, Yasmine, threaten to ruin everything she's dedicated her life to achieving. Her education, her friendship, and the new love in her life.

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Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Independent Women - A Man's Point of View

A few weeks ago, I posted a blog about the various definitions of the word independent, and ask for women’s feedback, What Makes A Woman Independent? I got a few interesting comments.

This week, I want to tackle the subject from a different point of view.

What do men today think of an independent woman?

As you know, the subject of the conversation blog posts on this site are direct reflections of the storyline and subject matter represented in the first novel of The Butterfly Memoirs, A Heart Not Easily Broken. The heroine, Ebony Campbell, is an independent, goal oriented black woman who knows what she wants.

Over the past seven years she focused on her education and reaching her career goal, not relationships. Her decision is based on more than just her need to succeed. Past dating experiences are also a factor. She once dated a man who focused on his career as much as she did, and the relationship worked. Until he tells her in order for to move forward, she would need to give up her aspirations, forget her years of education, marry him, and stay home to have his kids. Needless to say, it was over.

Then, along comes Brian Young. Despite the difference in race, Ebony is drawn to him not only because he is goal oriented and has the same desire to succeed as she does; he’s supportive of what she wants to do in life. He never asks her to give up her job, quit school, or change to a career that is not time consuming to make room for him. This mindset is the reason why Ebony falls in love with the man Brian is, and ignores their racial differences. The issues they may face when it comes to their families or society in general are inconsequential when finding the support she needs.

I had fun getting to know Brian as I developed his character. Not only is he good looking, athletic, and an amazing musician, he’s a go-getter. When he decides what he wants, he lets nothing stand in his way. That’s why when he meets Ebony and she brushes him off, he doesn’t take it personally. Instead, recognizing she is unlike most women he meets - the ones that faun over him because he’s in a band - he goes out of his way to get to know her. Her sassyness, her willingness to work hard, the fact she has a plan to reach her dream, are more of a turn on for him than just how fine she is. His idea of a perfect woman is having a partner who will not only support him and his goals, she has her own. He’s tireless in providing Ebony the support she needs, be it verbally, financial, or just giving her some space.

I’ll let him tell you himself:

I listened to her go into detail about her daily work routine. Listening to her speak passionately about something she enjoyed made my day. Her enthusiasm reminded me of the way I felt about music. Women I’d dated before, only talked about what they expected from me. It was refreshing to be with a woman with goals.

And my personal favorite:

When I met Ebony, sleeping with her was my initial goal, because hell, it had been impossible to ignore a body like hers. That night I was horny and in need of a release. If she responded to the free drink, she would have been like any other woman: a quick lay with no strings attached. But she didn’t.

The way she’d looked me up and down and questioned my intentions threw me way off my ordinary game and into uncharted territory. Up for a challenge, I grabbed a hold and refused to let go. The more I got to know her, the more I fantasized and lusted…until now.

And somehow in-between all of this I did the unthinkable and introduced her to my life. My music. My family. Since when did I start introducing women I had only known for a month to my family? Family was sacred. You never brought an unknown element into the center of your life. A rotten influence could disturb the entire balance of what gave you peace in the world.

My slice of perfection. My slice of paradise.

My Eve.

I chuckled. My father described his relationship with my mother that way. And yeah, I confided in him that I thought I’d found ‘the one’. But I had no true idea what that ‘one’ was until now.

Never in my life had I ever been this satisfied after sex and yet still craved more. And the more wasn’t just about sex. I wanted her smile, her company. I wanted her to be just as important in my life as my guitar.

Anything Ebony wanted from me, she could have. My time. My money. My heart.

Brian is not alone. I did a poll recently on Facebook and among the men in my life and asked which they would prefer:

A woman who can take care of herself without being needy.
No, I like being the one to take care of her
I believe in teamwork. If we work together, we can achieve more and be happy.

The results came in as this: Teamwork. Together we can achieve more and be happy.

Today’s way of life, and let’s face it, the economy, dictate, often demand a woman wear more than just the hat of wife, mother, and lover. Sometimes we have to take care of those things and assist our men in taking care of the house financially. It also means men are looking for more than just good looks. Finding a partner who is willing to dig into the trenches with them to take care of one another is one of the most important characteristics they are looking for.

Refreshing isn't it? Though a good man is often hard to find, remember, he's out there...somewhere, you just gotta keep looking.

On that note, I will end this blog with a music video that, in my opinion, adequately shows appreciation from a man to his hard working woman. Enjoy! As always, please share your opinions!